Today's casualness with sexuality....

Here is a IM conversation I just had.....

Mouse: WOMAN
CAT: MAN

Mouse: hey
Mouse: oh so you are here to save the day? lol
CAT: what’s good
CAT: just U
Mouse: lol
Mouse: you missed me in my brown cords today...
Mouse: i looked rather cute too
CAT: I bet U did thats Ur fault that I missed U in them
CAT: did U take them off
Mouse: not yet
CAT: already
Mouse: i still have them on...
Mouse: why?
CAT: thats good I'll take them off U
Mouse: u wanna see me in them/
Mouse: will you now/
CAT: Yes why not
CAT: yes
Mouse: how are are going to manage that?
CAT: by any means how else would I, U tell me what I need to do
Mouse: this is YOUR idea, so what is your plan?
CAT: I would come over there or invite U here, I would get on my knees and take them off of U, I might use my mouth as well, but we would have to see
Mouse: hmm... that sounds inviting....
CAT: oh yeah
Mouse: lol
Mouse: ]then what /
Mouse: then what?
CAT: do U have a better plan
CAT: then whatever U want
Mouse: uh huh...
Mouse: i can't believe that was all you wanted to do after you got my pants off. heck i can just put them back on an let you do that again lol
CAT: I said whatever U want, U can Use Ur imagination
CAT: maybe i just want to look at U with Ur pants off
Mouse: uh huh....CAT: I could do alot of things, like give U a massage, I could kiss U from here to there, I could lick U from here to there and I could do some wonderful and maybe exciting things as well
CAT: oh yeah
Mouse: i would like to think that I am special
Mouse: and I am the only person you have this type of conversation with
CAT: U R special why wouldn't U be
Mouse: but hmm... am I?
Mouse: at am at point in my life where I am looking for LOVE
Mouse: not sex but LOVE
Mouse: do you feel where I am coming from?
CAT: same here, I'm at this point in my life that I want the entire package from a woman, I'm tired of settling for explanations and reasons.
CAT: And Yes I do feel where U R coming from
Mouse: thats good. I really like you despite the age difference lol
Mouse: but right now i am more interested in developing a relationship with someone with NO SEX involved at first
CAT: I luv U regardless of the age differences, I never mattered to me at all
CAT: thats fine
Mouse: yeah I guess not. it took you 5 years to tell me your age!
CAT: thats not tru, U knew my age from the start
CAT: i told U, I don't know Ur age
Mouse: noooo i didn't
CAT: i told U
Mouse: eventually. ur 33/34 correct
Mouse: or younger?
CAT: I will be 35
CAT: since we R on the age thing how about Urself????
Mouse: i'll be 45
Mouse: i'm old.. lol
CAT: I've dated a woman Ur age before, Ur young
Mouse: how many women are you currently seeing/dating CAT?
CAT: I've lost count:))
Mouse: hmmm
Mouse: wrong answer..
CAT: just kidding, I'm not dating anyone, I'm single
Mouse: sure... and why is that?
CAT: by choice all by choice
Mouse: on both parties?
CAT: there is only one party and that mine,
Mouse: but you do have casual sex from time to time?
Mouse: i believe you told me that once before...
CAT: Curious to why U R asking me these ???
CAT: or is it just conversation
Mouse: i am curious....
Mouse: like i said i am looking for love/commitment NOT SEX in the beginning
Mouse: hell once you get intimate with a person that chnages the dynamics of the relationship for me
Mouse: I can't deal with casual sex... too much for me lol
CAT: it does Ur right
Mouse: huh?
CAT: ok, but why R U telling me this
Mouse: just feel like getting it off my chest.
CAT: I see
CAT: but I already know this about U
Mouse: I'm going to start another blog that is no one will know it's me writing...
Mouse: u do?
Mouse: sorry if I am boring you!
CAT: yes I do, I pay attention to U all the time
CAT: Ur not
CAT:I know what U want, and often at times I want to be the one to give it to U, but I also know that I'm not ready and I know that Ur not going to wait for the love that U want and deserve
Mouse: 1) why are you not ready?
CAT: because I'm hurt, frustrated and just not trusting anyone with my heart at this moment. I know that U would never do anything to hurt me, but I don't want to take that chance right now
Mouse: ok so who hurt you? yep I'm being nosey here
CAT: my son's mother
Mouse: she hurt you? wow
CAT: yes
Mouse: i'm here
Mouse: becuase she wouldn't commit to you?
CAT: no, its not that
CAT: she has been dishonest, with me from the begining
Mouse: really? wow. this must have taken place after your son was born?
CAT: before and after
Mouse: ok so let move on to #2
Mouse: why shouldn't a woman like me wait for you?
CAT: I have more than that, this is a life time ordeal here my son turining 20 is not going to be the end of it
CAT: i didn't mean me, I meant the love that U R looking for in general
Mouse: so what do you think I am looking for? I am curious...
CAT: I don't want to disappoint U or hurt U, U mean that Much to me
CAT: I assume that U R looking for the Love that makes U feel complete, which we all are
Mouse: hmm... pretty good answer. I wouldn't necessarily say complete... how about enhancing each other?
CAT: thats apart of it, but I deserve to be with someone that makes me feel like I'm on top of this world regardless of any situation and I would do the same in return. Theres nothing wrong with wanting someone to be Ur everything and U theirs
Mouse: true that... true that. I am impressed. Most men don't get it or choose not to acknowlege it...
CAT: I truly believe in love, but I wont be anyones fool for thought or anything else.
Mouse: again I am impressed!! too bad other men don't get it
CAT: Yeah I get lonely and want someone to be with, but until I'm comfortable with me again it's not going to happen. See I've been in relationships just because of being in one or being in one cause we had slept with each other, but I'm not doing it again and who knows probably never
Mouse: so we began this conversation about you taking my pants off?? Were you just having an IM fantasy or was that truly an invitation?
CAT: An IM fantasy, in which I have every time I see U, but as far as the invite. I have no problem inviting U or here to spend time together w/o sex involved
Mouse: see that is what I had been waiting for you to say... now whether you could manage to keep your hands off me remains to be seen. You love to kiss me and hold my hand when we have lunch!
Mouse: don't get me wrong..I really do enjoy it. But i want to really get to know you before we go down that rolling in the hay road....